Hungry for Leadership…

I’m often perplexed by the opinion that Leadership is best taught with a hands off approach.  I understand that young leaders want to be “treated as adults” and not be “nagged” for deliverables.  These are two reasons I heard this week as to why the California Jaycees has decided to empower chapters to run themselves.  In theory this course of action is sound. I mean you’re giving chapters what they want and enabling them to explore their entrepreneurial spirit and lead their chapters as they see fit.  It’s definitely a win-win on the surface, but what about beneath the surface?

Beneath the surface the state of the State is in dire straits.  There is a perception that the State does not care because the have opted to take a “hands-off” approach.  This is the direct result of giving Chapter Presidents a list of deadlines at the beginning of the year with little to no follow-up.  I realize that people don’t want to be nagged — who does?  But since when has follow-up been equated with nagging?

In business, we are consistently asked by our bosses and our peers what the status of certain projects are.  When tasked with a specific task, it is not uncommon for the assignor to ask the assignees if a task has been completed.  I’m not condoning micro management, but neither am I condoning macro-management – because both have the potential for adverse results.  What I am condoning, however, are the basic elements of project management which dictate that tasks are assigned and reviewed through to completion.

If we are to be an effective leadership development organization teaching community development, individual development, business development, and international development through project management (let’s face it, this is what we do!), then we need to make sure that we don’t forget to lead by example and employ those techniques that made us the leaders we are.  I don’t want us to “nag” our members, but I would like for us to follow-up with chapters to make sure that they are doing what they need to do in order to maintain in compliance with the organization itself.   Members are hungry for leadership — lets lead!

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80/20 rule applies

This evening I find myself in a hotel waiting to be called upon to be inducted into an organization. I am here because a dear friend of mine has been asking me to join for a year now and I finally told him that I’d do it for him. The premise of the organization is good. The people (well most of them) seem fine. The responsibilities are not over-bearing. So why have I been so resistant?

I’ve resisted because a couple of years ago a few members of the group made my life difficult. They fed into rumors without consideration of the truth. They shunned me, so much, that I once came into a room to give a speech and two people got up and turned their backs to me. These are people who, at the time, did not know me. They only knew what they heard and judged me based on those fallacies. There were others, too, who acted as judge and jury of a one sided argument. These are people that I am now expected to interact with. I’d like to think that I’m strong enough to just let it go. But the reality is that those individuals judged me unfairly, multiple individuals suffered, and are still suffering. My friend assures me that they now know the truth and have every confidence in me. I am skeptical.

I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking — let it go! I should, I know. But, I can’t help to get angry every time I see them. They are supposed to be the mentors of this organization. The are supposed to encourage leadership. They are supposed to represent the best of the best. But in my eyes, they don’t. Every times I see them, I see the people that never gave me a chance. I see the people that chose to act upon their own agendas at the detriment of other individuals. When i see them, I see the 20% that skewed my perception of their entire organization.

Tonight I will be inducted into their organization. When the time comes, I will paste a smile on my face, interact with the members and make my friend proud. He knows how hard this is for me — I mean if you think of it, I’m in the hotel room typing this instead of interacting with the group. But I will do this because his belief in me in unwavering, because he is my true friend. I do this because he asked me.

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